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Monday, August 06, 2007

Following Jesus in Our Relationships Part II - Luke 6:20-49

Following Jesus In Our Relationships II - Luke 6:20-49

Hillcrest Church, August 5, 2007

Text (Luke 6:27-49)

" 27 "… I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. 30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you. 32 "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. 37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." 39 He also told them this parable: "Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? 40 A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher. 41 "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 42 How can you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. 43 "No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. 44 Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. 45 The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks. 46 "Why do you call me, 'Lord, Lord,' and do not do what I say? 47 I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. 48 He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. 49 But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete." " (Luke 6:20-49, NIV)

Introduction

Last week, we began looking at this sixth chapter of the Gospel of Luke through the lens of relationships, seeking to learn lessons we can apply to each one of our lives by living out our relationships the way Jesus did.

As I shared last Sunday, the Lord was remarkably successful at living in healthy relationship with those around Him. As we follow Him, He will teach us how to relate to others the way He did.

In our first study of this topic, we noted three important things:

·         Godly relationships are providential, not accidental. (vs. 12-15)

As we walk with Jesus, He will lead us into the right relationships.

·         Godly relationships prioritize His purposes more than our comfort. (vs. 16-19)

After praying all night long, the Father let Jesus choose a Judas…! NOTE: This was a God-given relationship with an ungodly individual…!
From a natural point of view, no one would want to have a relationship with a Judas…! No one would ever want to experience rejection and betrayal, but God allowed Jesus to experience this painful relationship so that His purposes could be established in the earth.

"15 In those days Peter stood up among the believers (a group numbering about a hundred and twenty) 16 and said, "Brothers, the Scripture had to be fulfilled which the Holy Spirit spoke long ago through the mouth of David concerning Judas, who served as guide for those who arrested Jesus— 17 he was one of our number and shared in this ministry." 18 (With the reward he got for his wickedness, Judas bought a field; there he fell headlong, his body burst open and all his intestines spilled out. 19 Everyone in Jerusalem heard about this, so they called that field in their language Akeldama, that is, Field of Blood.) 20 "For," said Peter, "it is written in the book of Psalms, " 'May his place be deserted; let there be no one to dwell in it,' and, " 'May another take his place of leadership.' 21 Therefore it is necessary to choose one of the men who have been with us the whole time the Lord Jesus went in and out among us, 22 beginning from John's baptism to the time when Jesus was taken up from us. For one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection."" (Acts 1:15-22, NIV)

·         Godly relationships will always be at odds with an ungodly world. (vs. 20-26)

The world cannot teach us how to live out godly relationships and it will misunderstand and oppose us as we do.
The life of Jesus Christ broke some of the laws popular speakers and books lay down about how to get what you want out of relationships. Beware many of these writings, for they are ultimately selfish in their motives and purposes and this is contrary to the life we are called to live in God's Word as a follower of Jesus!
For instance, Jesus never flattered His subordinates. He never fawned over the powerful. He never glossed over unrepentant sin and He always spoke truth to everyone in perfect love with redemptive, not selfish, motives.

Then, beginning with verse 27, we learn five important principles from the words of Jesus about how to live in right relationship with others, in Luke's version of the Sermon on the Mount.

It is interesting, by the way, to note in passing three important differences between Luke's version and that of Matthew.

·         Matthew's account s longer.

·         Luke leaves out much of the legal language Matthew uses, perhaps because his audience is Gentile instead of Jewish.

·         Luke includes "woes" as well as "blessings."

1.    Godly relationships require doing right, even in the face of wrong (vs. 27-38)

Always do right, even if the other person in the relationship does wrong…!

Do right proactively, i.e., without waiting to see whether or not the other person will do right or wrong.

What, specifically, does this mean?

·         Loving, not hating – doing good to those who hate you (vs. 27)

" 27 "But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you," (Luke 6:27, NIV)

The biblical concept of "love" has far more to do with action than with emotion. Jesus did not say, "Have warm, fuzzy feelings about your enemies." He said "Do good to those who hate you…" We can act in love even when we do not feel love, and often, doing the right thing results in our feeling the right thing…!
Ø      Corrie ten Boom's story about extending her hand toward the ex-concentration camp guard.

·         Blessing, not cursing – praying for those who mistreat you (vs. 28)

"28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you." (Luke 6:28, NIV)

"Bless" (literally, "speak well of")  ελογέω – from which we get our English word, "eulogize." Made from two other words (ε, εγε  [eu /yoo/]  - good/well) and (όγος [logos /log·os/] word/speech, etc.")

"Curse"καταρωμένους from ἀρά [ara /ar·ah] Derived from katarásthai, "to enchant," katára means "curse." "…utterances that are designed to bring harm by supernatural operation…"

Blessing someone who has done you wrong does not mean approving or blessing their wrong, but, rather, speaking God's promises and purposes over their lives.

Ø      Cesky Tesin altar call story during Krestanke Cirkem's dedication – "What is it that you want most from God? Now, pray and ask God to give that same thing to your enemies…!"

Cf. Brad and Melba Burke's "Blessing" message. (Praying for God's purpose – which always involves blessing – be realized in that person's life…!)
This concept is specifically referred to at least four times in Scripture - Luke 6:28 plus…

"14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse." (Romans 12:14, NIV)

"12 … When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it; 13 when we are slandered, we answer kindly…" (1 Corinthians 4:11-13, NIV)

" 8 Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing." (1 Peter 3:8-9, NIV)

Note that Peter promises that when we return blessing for cursing, we will experience even greater blessing…!
Jesus led the way in this…!

"34 Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots." (Luke 23:34, NIV)

Stephen did the same as he was stoned,

"60 Then he fell on his knees and cried out, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them." When he had said this, he fell asleep." (Acts 7:60, NIV)

·         Yielding, not resisting – turning cheek, giving tunic as well as cloak (vs. 29)

"29 If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic." (Luke 6:29, NIV)

Matthew specifies the right cheek (which might infer being struck with the left hand, which would be all the more insulting…!)
In Acts 23:2, Ananias, the High Priest, had Paul struck on the mouth…

"2 At this the high priest Ananias ordered those standing near Paul to strike him on the mouth." (Acts 23:2, NIV)

·         Giving, not getting – give to everyone that asks you and do not demand it back (vs. 30), give and it will be given unto you (vs. 38)

"30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back." (Luke 6:30, NIV)

"38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."" (Luke 6:38, NIV)

Ø      Never go into any relationships solely for what you think you can get out of it…! That is not the way God is, i.e., that is an ungodly approach to that relationship…!

·         Acting, not reacting – Do unto others as you would have them do unto you and whether or not they will do good unto you…! (proactive, not reactive) (vs. 31-34)

"31 Do to others as you would have them do to you. 32 "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' lend to 'sinners,' expecting to be repaid in full." (Luke 6:31-34, NIV)

·         Forgiving, not avenging – love your enemies and lend to them, expecting nothing in return (vs. 35); do not judge and you will not be judged, do not condemn and you will not be condemned (vs. 37)

"35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked." (Luke 6:35, NIV)

" 37 "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." (Luke 6:37, NIV)

"21 To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 "He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth." 23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly." (1 Peter 2:21-23, NIV)

Ø      When you are wronged, surrender what seems, humanly speaking, your right to take justice in your own hands and commit it into God's hands. (And, do not be surprised if He is merciful and gracious and treats that person better than they deserve…!)

Ø      Paul's conversion was an answer to Stephen's prayer that those who were stoning him should be forgiven.

"60 Then he fell on his knees and cried out, "Lord, do not hold this sin against them." When he had said this, he fell asleep." (Acts 7:60, NIV)

·         Governed by grace, not grounded in law – be like your Father who is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked; be merciful like He is merciful…! (vs. 36)

"36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful." (Luke 6:36, NIV)

Ø      "How many times do I have to do this?" Peter asked. "Seven times seven?" (i.e., for a limited amount of times) Jesus replied, "No, seventy times seven!" (i.e., for as many times as they sin…!)

Do right because of who you are, not because of who they are…!

This means focusing on our responsibilities instead of our rights. Godly relationships are built by focusing on responsibilities more than rights…!

Because we are all sinful, any relationship that is not filled with God's love and empowered by His Spirit will ultimately fail to be all that it could be and all that it should be…!

Invitation

1.    Do you need God to help you do right when someone else does wrong in your relationship?

2.    Do you need God to cleanse your tongue and fill it with words that will nourish your relationships?

3.    Do you need to begin a relationship with God?


Notes

·         Judas did not really care about the poor, but he helped himself to some of the money from time to time.

Luke's "Beatitudes" is quite similar to the "Sermon on the Mount" recorded by Matthew (Matt. 5–7). However, they are located at different times in Jesus' life chronologically, and Matthew's account was considerably longer than Luke's (107 verses in contrast to 30). It is probable that Jesus repeated the essential message of the Sermon on the Mount several times during his ministry. Luke recorded a similar sermon but with more brevity and slightly different language and phraseology. Luke's use of the phrase "Kingdom of God" (Luke 6:20) and Matthew's "kingdom of heaven" are virtually equivalent. "Heaven" was a respectful, Jewish form of reference to God.[1]

Jesus came down to "a level place" (NKJV) ("plain," KJV) on the side of the mountain, and there He preached the apostles' "ordination sermon." In his report of what we call "The Sermon on the Mount" (Matt. 5–7), Luke eliminated the "Jewish sections" that would not pertain to his audience of Gentiles. Jesus preached this sermon to the multitudes as well as to His apostles, and its message applies to us today. Nobody is saved by "keeping the Sermon on the Mount," because salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ.

The sermon deals with the disciples' relationships to possessions (vv. 20–26), people (vv. 27–45), and the Lord (vv. 46–49). In the section on people, Jesus tells us how to get along with our enemies (vv. 27–36) and our brothers (vv. 37–45). You can summarize the sermon in four words: being (vv. 20–26), loving (vv. 27–36), forgiving (vv. 37–45), and obeying (vv. 46–49).[2]

The people who followed Jesus were, for the most part, poor people who lived from hand to mouth, a day at a time. They envied the rich and longed to be like them. The Bible does not teach that poverty is a blessing, for it tells us to take care of the poor and needy, but that poverty need not rob us of blessing. It has well been said that many people know the price of everything but the value of nothing. It is not a sin to be rich, but it is a sin to trust riches and think you are a special person in God's sight because of[3]

The four striking figures in this section teach us some important lessons about ministry. To begin with, as His disciples, we must be sure that we see clearly enough to guide others in their spiritual walk. While there are blind people who have a keen sense of direction, it is not likely any of them will be hired as airplane pilots or wilderness guides. Jesus was referring primarily to the Pharisees who were leading the people astray (Matt. 15:14; 23:16). If we see ourselves as excellent guides, but do not realize our blindness, we will only lead people into the ditch (see Rom. 2:17–22).

Luke 6:40 reminds us that we cannot lead others where we have not been ourselves, nor can we be all that our Master is. In fact, the more we strive to be like Him, the more we realize how far short we fall. This is a warning against pride, for nothing blinds a person like pride.

Continuing the image of "the eye," Jesus taught that we must be able to see clearly enough to help our brother see better. It certainly is not wrong to help a brother get a painful speck of dirt out of his eye, provided we can see what we are doing. The crowd must have laughed out loud when Jesus described an "eye doctor" with a plank in his eye, performing surgery on a patient with a speck in his eye!

The emphasis here is on being honest with ourselves and not becoming hypocrites. It is easy to try to help a brother with his faults just so we can cover up our own sins! People who are constantly criticizing others are usually guilty of something worse in their own lives.[4]

6:27-38. Jesus mentioned seven aspects of unconditional love. These actions, not done naturally by human nature, require supernatural enabling—and are thus proof of true righteousness:

(1) Love your enemies.

(2) Do good to those who hate you.

(3) Bless those who curse you.

(4) Pray for those who mistreat you.

(5) Do not retaliate (v. 29a).

(6) Give freely (vv. 29b-30).

(7) Treat others the way you want to be treated (v. 31).

This kind of love marks one off as distinctive (vv. 32-34), and as having the same characteristics as the heavenly Father (v. 35).

Jesus then taught His followers a fundamental principle of the universe—what one sows he will reap (vv. 36-38; cf. Gal. 6:7). Jesus outlined five areas which were proof of the sowing and reaping theme, mentioned so often in Scripture: (1) Mercy will lead to mercy (Luke 6:36). The disciples were exhorted to have the same merciful attitude God displayed toward them.

(2) Judgment will lead to judgment (v. 37a).

(3) Condemnation will lead to condemnation (v. 37b).

(4) Pardon will lead to pardon (v. 37c).

(5) Giving will lead to giving (v. 38). It is simply a fact of life that certain attitudes and actions often reflect back on the individual.[5]

 

A Nobody Named Kimball

Edward Kimball was concerned about one of his young Sunday School students who worked at a shoe store in town. One day Kimball visited him at the store, found the student working in the back stocking shelves, and led him to Christ then and there. Dwight L. Moody eventually left the shoe store to become one of the greatest preachers and evangelists of all time. 

Moody, whose international speaking took him to the British Isles, preached in a little chapel pastored by a young man with the imposing name of Frederic Brotherton Meyer. In his sermon Moody told an emotionally charged story about a Sunday School teacher who personally went to every student in his class and let each of them to Christ.

That message changed Pastor Meyer's ministry, inspiring him to become an evangelist like Moody. Over the years Meyer came to America. While speaking in Northfield, MA a young preacher heard Meyer say, "If you are not willing to give up everything for Christ, are you willing to be made willing?" That remark led J. Wilbur Chapman to respond to the call of God on his life.

Chapman went on to become one of the most effective evangelists of his time. A volunteer by the name of Billy Sunday helped set up his crusades and learned how to preach by watching Chapman. Sunday eventually took over Chapman's ministry becoming one of the most dynamic evangelists of this century. Billy Sunday's preaching brought thousands to Christ.

Inspired by a 1924 Billy Sunday crusade in Charlotte, NC a group of Christians dedicated themselves to reaching their city for Christ. The group invited the evangelist Mordecai Ham to come and hold a series of evangelistic meetings in 1932. A lanky
16 year old sat in the huge crowd one evening, spellbound by the message the white-haired preacher gave. Each evening the preacher seemed to be shouting and waving his finger at the young man. Night after night the teen came and finally went forward to give his life to Christ.

That teenager was Billy Graham. Billy Graham has communicated the gospel to more people than any other person in history. And it all started with a Sunday School teacher named Kimball. Millions have been affected by his decision to go into a shoe store and share Christ with one person. Millions more will continue to feel his impact.

 



[1]Robert B. Hughes, J. Carl Laney and Robert B. Hughes, Tyndale Concise Bible Commentary, Rev. Ed. of: New Bible Companion. 1990.; Includes Index., The Tyndale reference library (Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers, 2001), 447.

[2]Warren W. Wiersbe, Wiersbe's Expository Outlines on the New Testament (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1997, c1992), 161.

[3]Warren W. Wiersbe, Wiersbe's Expository Outlines on the New Testament (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1997, c1992), 161.

[4]Warren W. Wiersbe, The Bible Exposition Commentary, "An Exposition of the New Testament Comprising the Entire 'BE' Series"--Jkt. (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1996, c1989), Lk 6:20.

[5]John F. Walvoord, Roy B. Zuck and Dallas Theological Seminary, The Bible Knowledge Commentary : An Exposition of the Scriptures (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1983-c1985), 2:220.

Following Jesus in Our Relationships Part 1 - Luke 6:1-11

Following Jesus In Our Relationships I - Luke 6:1-11

Hillcrest Church, July 29, 2007

Text (Luke 6:12-49)

" 12 One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. 13 When morning came, he called his disciples to him and chose twelve of them, whom he also designated apostles: 14 Simon (whom he named Peter), his brother Andrew, James, John, Philip, Bartholomew, 15 Matthew, Thomas, James son of Alphaeus, Simon who was called the Zealot, 16 Judas son of James, and Judas Iscariot, who became a traitor. 17 He went down with them and stood on a level place. A large crowd of his disciples was there and a great number of people from all over Judea, from Jerusalem, and from the coast of Tyre and Sidon, 18 who had come to hear him and to be healed of their diseases. Those troubled by evil spirits were cured, 19 and the people all tried to touch him, because power was coming from him and healing them all. 20 Looking at his disciples, he said: “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God. 21 Blessed are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied. Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh. 22 Blessed are you when men hate you, when they exclude you and insult you and reject your name as evil, because of the Son of Man. 23 “Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their fathers treated the prophets. 24 “But woe to you who are rich, for you have already received your comfort. 25 Woe to you who are well fed now, for you will go hungry. Woe to you who laugh now, for you will mourn and weep. 26 Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for that is how their fathers treated the false prophets. 27 “But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. 30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you. 32 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even ‘sinners’ lend to ‘sinners,’ expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. 37 “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” 39 He also told them this parable: “Can a blind man lead a blind man? Will they not both fall into a pit? 40 A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher. 41 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 42 How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. 43 “No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. 44 Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. 45 The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks. 46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? 47 I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. 48 He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. 49 But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.” " (Luke 6:12-49, NIV)


Introduction

Suggestions for sermon topics during July included several questions about relationships. I preached on both husbands and wives. Today, I want to talk more broadly about principles that apply to all of life’s relationships.

This section of Luke’s Gospel opens with Jesus formally establishing His closest and most intimate relationships. It shows us how important relationships were in the life of Jesus.

He could not become what the Father intended Him to be or do what the Father had called Him to do without coming into relationship with the right people and walking in right relationship with those people!

As I follow Jesus, He brings me into relationships with people who will help me become like Him and with people that He wants me to help to become like Him! (People I need and people that need me.)

·         Jesus wants to help us choose our closest relationships (based on the promptings of the Holy Spirit). (“Show me your friends and I will show you your future…!)

·         Jesus wants to help us prioritize our most important relationships. (“If you do not love me more than fathers, mothers, sisters, and brothers, you have no part in me.” Jesus did not say that we should not love our relatives at all, rather, He was saying that we must love Him more.

"34 “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 For I have come to turn “ ‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law— 36 a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ 37 “Anyone who loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; 38 and anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. 39 Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." (Matthew 10:34-39, NIV)

Why? Because sometimes our family will not want to follow God as much as we do and we must be willing to follow Him even if no one else around us does. (NOTE: This does not mean that a converted husband or wife can or should abandon the unconverted husband or wife…!)

"10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. 16 How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?" (1 Corinthians 7:10-16, NIV)

·         Jesus wants to help us nourish and maintain the relationships in our life.

This does not mean that we will always experience what we want or hope for in relationships. Even Jesus did not always experience success in every relationship (His commitment to God did not violate or override the other person’s free choice, i.e., Peter’s failure, Judas’s betrayal, etc.) But, applying God’s principles to our relationships means that God’s purposes will be accomplished in our relationships and that we will experience God’s blessings and help in our relationships.
Even godly relationships involve risk. (Jesus took risks on relationships with people others were unwilling to take a chance on. Woman at the well, Mary Magdalene, etc.)
Jesus experienced disappointment and unmet needs in His relationships (“My soul is exceedingly sorrowful even unto death. Will you not watch with me one hour?” and “Will you also go away?”)
God-given relationships are not just about you (what you can receive), they are also about others (what you can give.) As I follow Jesus, He brings me into relationship with people I can help to become like Him. Through His relationships, Jesus impacted others and through those others, He impacted the world.

Other than our walk with Christ, there is perhaps nothing that will more impact your ability to live a healthy, meaningful life like your ability to walk in right relationship with other people.

People who have good relational skills and limited professional skills succeed far beyond people who have good professional skills and poor relational skills.

You may experience some level of success based on talent alone, but not matter how high you rise in your field of endeavor, you can always rise higher with good relational skills.

As we follow Him, He will transform the way that we approach relationships, He will change what we expect out of relationships, and He will help redeem the failure we may have experienced in relationships…! He will teach us to enter into relationships with open minds, open hearts, and open hands.

Let’s walk through this passage together…

1.    Godly relationship are providential not accidental. (vs. 12-15)

Jesus chose His apostles after spending the night in prayer. These extremely important relationships were God-given, not man-made. The disciples chose Him, but He chose the apostles…!

·         Terry Phillip’s advice before going to Export – “Choose your friends based on character qualities you see in their lives that you want in your life.”

·         “Show me your friends and I will show you your future.

·         Never, ever, ever marry someone to change them. It is much more likely that they will change you…!

The right life companion comes through praying, not partying…!

2.    Godly relationships prioritize His purposes more than our comfort. (vs. 16-19)

After praying all night long, the Father let Jesus choose a Judas…!

NOTE: This was a God-given relationship with an ungodly individual…!

From a natural point of view, no one would want to have a relationship with a Judas…! No one would ever want to experience rejection and betrayal, but God allowed Jesus to experience this painful relationship so that His purposes could be established in the earth.

Peter said in the Upper Room before Pentecost,

"15 In those days Peter stood up among the believers (a group numbering about a hundred and twenty) 16 and said, “Brothers, the Scripture had to be fulfilled which the Holy Spirit spoke long ago through the mouth of David concerning Judas, who served as guide for those who arrested Jesus— 17 he was one of our number and shared in this ministry.” 18 (With the reward he got for his wickedness, Judas bought a field; there he fell headlong, his body burst open and all his intestines spilled out. 19 Everyone in Jerusalem heard about this, so they called that field in their language Akeldama, that is, Field of Blood.) 20 For,” said Peter, “it is written in the book of Psalms, “ ‘May his place be deserted; let there be no one to dwell in it,’ and, “ ‘May another take his place of leadership.’ 21 Therefore it is necessary to choose one of the men who have been with us the whole time the Lord Jesus went in and out among us, 22 beginning from John’s baptism to the time when Jesus was taken up from us. For one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection.”" (Acts 1:15-22, NIV)

Then, preaching on the Day of Pentecost,

"22 “Men of Israel, listen to this: Jesus of Nazareth was a man accredited by God to you by miracles, wonders and signs, which God did among you through him, as you yourselves know. 23 This man was handed over to you by God’s set purpose and foreknowledge; and you, with the help of wicked men, put him to death by nailing him to the cross." (Acts 2:22-23, NIV)

·         Cf: The rich man with the beggar at his door; Paul’s counsel to godly individuals married to ungodly individuals; godly people working for ungodly bosses, etc.

It was not always easy for Jesus to have crowds of needy people chasing after Him…!

·         He felt the power going out of Him…ministry took something out of Him…! (Woman with issue of blood.)

3.    Godly relationships will always be at odds with an ungodly world. (vs. 20-26)

·         His ideas are different than our ideas…!

·         Notice He said, “Blessed are the poor, the hungry, those who weep, the hated, the excluded, and the rejected…!”

Life was difficult for the people of that day and there was not much hope their circumstances would be improved. Like people today, many of them thought that happiness came from having great possessions, or holding an exalted position, or enjoying the pleasures and popularity that money can buy. Imagine how surprised they were when they heard Jesus describe happiness in terms just the opposite of what they expected! They discovered that what they needed most was not a change in circumstances but a change in their relationship to God and in their outlook on life.

Jesus was not teaching that poverty, hunger, persecution, and tears were blessings in themselves. If that were true, He would never have done all He did to alleviate the sufferings of others. Rather, Jesus was describing the inner attitudes we must have if we are to experience the blessedness of the Christian life. We should certainly do what we can to help others in a material way (James 2:15–17; 1 John 3:16–18), but we must remember that no amount of “things” can substitute for a personal relationship with God.[1]

H.H. Farmer wrote that “to Jesus the terrible thing about having wrong values in life and pursuing wrong things is not that you are doomed to bitter disappointment, but that you are not; not that you do not achieve what you want, but that you do” (Things Not Seen, Nishbet [London], p. 96). When people are satisfied with the lesser things of life, the good instead of the best, then their successes add up only as failures. These people are spiritually bankrupt and do not realize it. [2]

·         The life of Jesus Christ broke some of the laws popular speakers and books lay down about how to get what you want out of relationships. Beware many of these writings, for they are ultimately selfish in their motives and purposes and this is contrary to the life we are called to live in God’s Word as a follower of Jesus!

For instance, Jesus never flattered His subordinates. He never fawned over the powerful. He never glossed over unrepentant sin and He always spoke truth to everyone in perfect love with redemptive, not selfish, motives.

Eleven out of the twelve most important relationships in Jesus’s life turned out so strong that those people literally laid down their lives for Him and His vision…!

Walking out our relationship His way really is better than walking out relationships our way!


Notes

·         Judas did not really care about the poor, but he helped himself to some of the money from time to time.

Luke’s “Beatitudes” is quite similar to the “Sermon on the Mount” recorded by Matthew (Matt. 5–7). However, they are located at different times in Jesus’ life chronologically, and Matthew’s account was considerably longer than Luke’s (107 verses in contrast to 30). It is probable that Jesus repeated the essential message of the Sermon on the Mount several times during his ministry. Luke recorded a similar sermon but with more brevity and slightly different language and phraseology. Luke’s use of the phrase “Kingdom of God” (Luke 6:20) and Matthew’s “kingdom of heaven” are virtually equivalent. “Heaven” was a respectful, Jewish form of reference to God.[3]

Jesus came down to “a level place” (NKJV) (“plain,” KJV) on the side of the mountain, and there He preached the apostles’ “ordination sermon.” In his report of what we call “The Sermon on the Mount” (Matt. 5–7), Luke eliminated the “Jewish sections” that would not pertain to his audience of Gentiles. Jesus preached this sermon to the multitudes as well as to His apostles, and its message applies to us today. Nobody is saved by “keeping the Sermon on the Mount,” because salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ.

The sermon deals with the disciples’ relationships to possessions (vv. 20–26), people (vv. 27–45), and the Lord (vv. 46–49). In the section on people, Jesus tells us how to get along with our enemies (vv. 27–36) and our brothers (vv. 37–45). You can summarize the sermon in four words: being (vv. 20–26), loving (vv. 27–36), forgiving (vv. 37–45), and obeying (vv. 46–49).[4]

The people who followed Jesus were, for the most part, poor people who lived from hand to mouth, a day at a time. They envied the rich and longed to be like them. The Bible does not teach that poverty is a blessing, for it tells us to take care of the poor and needy, but that poverty need not rob us of blessing. It has well been said that many people know the price of everything but the value of nothing. It is not a sin to be rich, but it is a sin to trust riches and think you are a special person in God’s sight because of[5]

The four striking figures in this section teach us some important lessons about ministry. To begin with, as His disciples, we must be sure that we see clearly enough to guide others in their spiritual walk. While there are blind people who have a keen sense of direction, it is not likely any of them will be hired as airplane pilots or wilderness guides. Jesus was referring primarily to the Pharisees who were leading the people astray (Matt. 15:14; 23:16). If we see ourselves as excellent guides, but do not realize our blindness, we will only lead people into the ditch (see Rom. 2:17–22).

Luke 6:40 reminds us that we cannot lead others where we have not been ourselves, nor can we be all that our Master is. In fact, the more we strive to be like Him, the more we realize how far short we fall. This is a warning against pride, for nothing blinds a person like pride.

Continuing the image of “the eye,” Jesus taught that we must be able to see clearly enough to help our brother see better. It certainly is not wrong to help a brother get a painful speck of dirt out of his eye, provided we can see what we are doing. The crowd must have laughed out loud when Jesus described an “eye doctor” with a plank in his eye, performing surgery on a patient with a speck in his eye!

The emphasis here is on being honest with ourselves and not becoming hypocrites. It is easy to try to help a brother with his faults just so we can cover up our own sins! People who are constantly criticizing others are usually guilty of something worse in their own lives.[6]

6:27-38. Jesus mentioned seven aspects of unconditional love. These actions, not done naturally by human nature, require supernatural enabling—and are thus proof of true righteousness:

(1) Love your enemies.

(2) Do good to those who hate you.

(3) Bless those who curse you.

(4) Pray for those who mistreat you.

(5) Do not retaliate (v. 29a).

(6) Give freely (vv. 29b-30).

(7) Treat others the way you want to be treated (v. 31).

This kind of love marks one off as distinctive (vv. 32-34), and as having the same characteristics as the heavenly Father (v. 35).

Jesus then taught His followers a fundamental principle of the universe—what one sows he will reap (vv. 36-38; cf. Gal. 6:7). Jesus outlined five areas which were proof of the sowing and reaping theme, mentioned so often in Scripture: (1) Mercy will lead to mercy (Luke 6:36). The disciples were exhorted to have the same merciful attitude God displayed toward them.

(2) Judgment will lead to judgment (v. 37a).

(3) Condemnation will lead to condemnation (v. 37b).

(4) Pardon will lead to pardon (v. 37c).

(5) Giving will lead to giving (v. 38). It is simply a fact of life that certain attitudes and actions often reflect back on the individual.[7]

 

 



[1]Warren W. Wiersbe, The Bible Exposition Commentary, "An Exposition of the New Testament Comprising the Entire 'BE' Series"--Jkt. (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1996, c1989), Lk 6:20.

[2]Warren W. Wiersbe, The Bible Exposition Commentary, "An Exposition of the New Testament Comprising the Entire 'BE' Series"--Jkt. (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1996, c1989), Lk 6:20.

[3]Robert B. Hughes, J. Carl Laney and Robert B. Hughes, Tyndale Concise Bible Commentary, Rev. Ed. of: New Bible Companion. 1990.; Includes Index., The Tyndale reference library (Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers, 2001), 447.

[4]Warren W. Wiersbe, Wiersbe's Expository Outlines on the New Testament (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1997, c1992), 161.

[5]Warren W. Wiersbe, Wiersbe's Expository Outlines on the New Testament (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1997, c1992), 161.

[6]Warren W. Wiersbe, The Bible Exposition Commentary, "An Exposition of the New Testament Comprising the Entire 'BE' Series"--Jkt. (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor Books, 1996, c1989), Lk 6:20.

[7]John F. Walvoord, Roy B. Zuck and Dallas Theological Seminary, The Bible Knowledge Commentary : An Exposition of the Scriptures (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1983-c1985), 2:220.

Monday, July 23, 2007

Following Jesus Through Change, Luke 5:22-6:11, July 22, 2007

Following Jesus Through Seasons of Change

Luke 5:33-6:11

Hillcrest Church, July 22, 2007

Text (Luke 5:27-39; 6:1-11)

" 27 After this, Jesus went out and saw a tax collector by the name of Levi sitting at his tax booth. "Follow me," Jesus said to him, 28 and Levi got up, left everything and followed him. 29 Then Levi held a great banquet for Jesus at his house, and a large crowd of tax collectors and others were eating with them. 30 But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law who belonged to their sect complained to his disciples, "Why do you eat and drink with tax collectors and 'sinners'?" 31 Jesus answered them, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. 32 I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance." 33 They said to him, "John's disciples often fast and pray, and so do the disciples of the Pharisees, but yours go on eating and drinking." 34 Jesus answered, "Can you make the guests of the bridegroom fast while he is with them? 35 But the time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them; in those days they will fast." 36 He told them this parable: "No one tears a patch from a new garment and sews it on an old one. If he does, he will have torn the new garment, and the patch from the new will not match the old. 37 And no one pours new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the new wine will burst the skins, the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. 38 No, new wine must be poured into new wineskins. 39 And no one after drinking old wine wants the new, for he says, 'The old is better.' " " (Luke 5:27-39, NIV)

" One Sabbath Jesus was going through the grainfields, and his disciples began to pick some heads of grain, rub them in their hands and eat the kernels. 2 Some of the Pharisees asked, "Why are you doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath?" 3 Jesus answered them, "Have you never read what David did when he and his companions were hungry? 4 He entered the house of God, and taking the consecrated bread, he ate what is lawful only for priests to eat. And he also gave some to his companions." 5 Then Jesus said to them, "The Son of Man is Lord of the Sabbath." 6 On another Sabbath he went into the synagogue and was teaching, and a man was there whose right hand was shriveled. 7 The Pharisees and the teachers of the law were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus, so they watched him closely to see if he would heal on the Sabbath. 8 But Jesus knew what they were thinking and said to the man with the shriveled hand, "Get up and stand in front of everyone." So he got up and stood there. 9 Then Jesus said to them, "I ask you, which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to destroy it?" 10 He looked around at them all, and then said to the man, "Stretch out your hand." He did so, and his hand was completely restored. 11 But they were furious and began to discuss with one another what they might do to Jesus." (Luke 6:1-11, NIV)

Introduction

Jesus was the greatest change agent in the history of the world. His coming changed the history of the world and He continues to change lives daily all over this planet today.

Some experts define leadership as the ability to effect positive change. If that be true, then Jesus is the greatest leader who has ever lived because no one else has ever changed the course of history like Him! (cf. Moses[1])

One of the themes in this portion of the Gospel of Luke is the growing tension between Jesus and the religious establishment as the result of the changes Jesus brought.

There were many reasons why the religious and civil establishment resented and rejected Jesus. At the heart of it all was the fact that Jesus set in motion a dynamic of enormous change. The changes He brought impacted them personally by impacting their society, their theology, and their livelihood. Their universal response was resistance:

·         Pharisees resisted stylistic change.

·         Sadducees resisted sociological / social change.

·         Scribes resisted theological change.

·         Kings resisted political change.

·         Merchants resisted economic change.

·         Practitioners of the occult resisted spiritual change.

The key issue raised by His opponents was the legitimacy of the changes He provoked. "What right do you have to change things?"

Jesus defended His right to bring change by painting four short word pictures of a doctor, a bridegroom, a garment, and a wineskin. Then, Luke fleshes out the Lord's paradigm of change by showing us how Jesus defended His disciples when they gleaned grain from the fields on the Sabbath and how Jesus healed a man with a withered hand with utter disregard for the Pharisee's judgmental eyes.

In response to the Pharisees' questions concerning the legitimacy of the changes Jesus was bringing, Luke uses a literary model found throughout his Gospel: declaration accompanied by demonstration. In 5:31-39, Jesus reaches out to them through His words (doctor, bridegroom, garment, wineskin), then through His deeds (defending His disciples plucking grain on the Sabbath and deliberately healing the man with the withered hand on the Sabbath. (6:1-11)

Even as He countered them and defended His own actions, He was trying to change them by changing their minds, their hearts, and their lives:

·         From Law/legalism to love

·         From self-righteousness to true righteousness

·         From dead religious tradition to life in the Spirit.

·         From a preoccupation with self to a genuine concern for others.

·         From being served to serving others…!

Jesus brought change deliberately, He did it tirelessly, He did it fearlessly, He did it relentlessly.

He refused to abandon His agenda for change in their lives and in their world-view. He had come to seek and to save and to change that which was lost and He never took, "No," for an answer…! He refused to allow their resistance to change to stop that change because He was sent from the Father on a mission of change.

As we follow Him, we discover that He is up to the same thing in each one of our lives: He wants to change us and use us to change others.

He loves us enough to receive the way we are, but He loves us too much to leave us the way we are. He has a plan to change every one of our lives and to use us an agent for change in the lives of those around us.

The prospect of profound change may be unsettling at first, but the reality is that everyone of us experiences ongoing change in our life anyway, some of it brought on by God, some of it provoked by the devil, some of it as the automatic byproduct of life.

Which principles can we learn about change from Jesus?

From The image of a Doctor, we learn

1.    Change is helpful.

Sometimes change is necessary for the greater good.

Sometimes there is a need for change because the need has changed…! (Ask, "Is it for the greater good? Will it benefit others?")

Two extremes to avoid regarding change: All change is bad (reactionary); all change is good.

Folk wisdom:

"If it ain't broke, don't fix it…!"
Before I built a wall I'd ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offence. (Robert Frost – "Mending Wall")

Ø      LEadership tip:

To be most effective at leading through change, base it on genuine need. Legitimate need validates change and is vital to obtaining "buy-in" from all key players (RASCI – Responsible for decision; must Agree to the decision; need to Support the decision; expect to Contribute to the decision; should be Informed about the decision)

Jesus categorically rejected the implication that a good spiritual leader should spend most of his time caring for the righteous sheep in the flock as opposed to seeking out the ones who are lost…! (cf. story of good shepherd leaving the 99 to rescue the 1…!)

From the Image of The bridegroom we learn…

2.    Change is seasonal.

Knowing the season you are in and flowing with the season you are in is one of the most important keys to rightly processing change…!

Delight in autumn's cool, golden light as it dapples the meadow whose summer shades of green are giving way to the amber hues of fall. Lift your nose to the air, waiting, wanting to catch the first little sniff of wood smoke, burning the dust off of someone's hearth.

As the rains begin to fall, the winds begin to blow, and the first flecks of snow begin to fly, rejoice in the prospect of curling up by the fire with a good book, sheltered from winter's encroaching chill.

Instead of stubbornly trying to linger at the lake in your summer shorts and flip-flops, celebrate the coming of Christmas, with its wondrous celebration of the Savior's birth. Focus on the reason for the season  and let your heart be filled again with the mystery of it all - Immanuel – God is with us…coming to love us, coming to seek us, coming to find us, coming to heal us, redeem us, deliver us, change us…!

And as you do, before you know it, spring's tender little buds will begin to peek and poke their way out through the thawing ground and your heart will thrill with the coming of spring when you can dust off that putter stowed away in the corner of the garage and head off to a newly mowed green as you luxuriate in that season's good, gentle warmth.

This is maturity, this is reality, this is wisdom – to know and to flow with the seasons of God in your life. Autumn follows summer as surely as winter follows fall and spring follows winter and then summer will surely come again. "To everything there is a season…" and God, "…has made everything beautiful in its time…" (Ecclesiastes 3:1,11)

" There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, 5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, 6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, 7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, 8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. 9 What does the worker gain from his toil? 10 I have seen the burden God has laid on men. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end. 12 I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. 13 That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil—this is the gift of God. 14 I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that men will revere him. 15 Whatever is has already been, and what will be has been before; and God will call the past to account." (Ecclesiastes 3:1-15, NIV)

 When I was a teenager in Junior High School in Lima, Peru, we had a teacher who must have been seventy and who came to her classes in purple, mini-mini-skirts with bright pink leotards. She was a nice lady, with many sterling qualities, I suppose, and while all who knew her appreciated and celebrated her zest for life, she was also the school's laughingstock, and that greatly hindered her effectiveness. Her mistake was simple, yet profoundly important: she refused to acknowledge and embrace the season she was in.

Ø      Leadership tip:

When contemplating change, ask, "Is this the right time?" remembering that there is no perfect time…!

"4 A sluggard does not plow in season; so at harvest time he looks but finds nothing." (Proverbs 20:4, NIV)

3.    Change is emotional.

Even positive change can produce negative emotions.

Change takes time to process emotionally.

The greater the degree or speed of change, the greater the degree of emotion we feel as a result of that change. The greater the degree of emotion, the greater the amount of time we will need to process that emotion.

Ø      Leadership Tip

Change should be processed openly, transparently, and truthfully.

-          Servant leadership vs. manipulation.

Change must be processed emotionally.

-          Profound change impacts people profoundly. Every person has a unique degree of tolerance for change. Emotions take time to "catch" up with necessary change.

-          One key mistake leaders make is to implement change only on a structural or organizational level without allowing people time to process the impact of that change emotionally…! This is what John Maxwell calls, "The law of process" and he declares is the law leaders violate most. Why? Because they have already processed the change in their own mind and heart before they announce it…! (Example: Parent who knows a career move and relocation is pending or a grandparent will soon be passing. Mom and Dad talk about it much in private. Children only learn about it much later and much more abruptly…! Personal stories about men not telling their wives when major change is coming.)

Change is best processed gradually. (3 ½ year ministry of Jesus)

-          You cannot always dictate the speed or degree of change, but you can wisely respond to change and process it (and help your followers process it) by understanding these principles.

-          The easiest change is gradual change. (Frog in kettle illustrates the need to be vigilant in the face of gradual negative change; Pastor and piano illustrates the wisdom of instituting gradual positive change.)

When experiencing or implementing change ask, "How do I and the others feel about this change?"

Two extremes to avoid: insensitivity to feelings and bondage to feelings…! (whether our own or those of others as a leader).

When dealing with important issues, we should not let our feelings or the feelings of others determine whether or not we implement a particular change. Instead, we should look at the fruit that change will produce, whether positive or negative. However, we need to be aware of the emotions that will accompany that change in order to walk it out in a healthy, productive, non-destructive way.

4.    Change is controversial.

The greater the degree or speed of change, the greater the controversy.

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The most effective way to process a group of people is to process them as individuals (each person has their own issues with change, their own personal degree of tolerance for change, and their own time-frame for processing change.) Youth, for example, usually processes change more easily and more quickly than age.
Distinguish between needs and opinions. Both old and new wine are beverages capable of slaking thirst and a truly thirsty person will drink either one…! Meeting the needs of others is much more important than catering to their preferences!
Another good question to ask when considering change is: "Does this change respect or disregard what good there is in the past?" Sometimes unnecessary controversy arises when leaders disparage or utterly disregard the past as they promote a particular change. REMEMBER: People's emotions get involved when they process change. One thing that stirs their emotions is their sense of loyalty to someone or something from the past that had great value in the past. (Note next image: Old wineskins have value for old wine…!)

From the image of The garment and the wineskin we learn…

5.    Change is inevitable.

Resisting change will not keep it from happening.

Everything living changes.

You cannot keep cloth from shrinking or wine from expanding. It will happen…!

Some changes cannot be partial, they must be total. You cannot put new wine into old wineskins…!

Tradition must never be valued more than truth…!

Ø      Leadership Tip

What change in your life or the group you lead do you realize is inevitable? Have you been postponing it because it appears too painful, perhaps because of potential fall-out from people who will react emotionally? Remember: Painful change seldom gets easier with time, rather, it usually grows even more difficult…!

6.    Change is personal.

Ultimately, each of us has to make up our mind, do we want the wine or do we want the wineskin

"A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still…!"

We must choose:

·         Resist, resent, and reject?

·         Receive and rejoice…!

Change is part of life and change is essential to growth…! The only thing in the universe that does not change is the God of heaven and His Word…! It will never change for us, we must change in response to it.

Ø      Leadership Tip

In order to successful lead others through change, I must learn to navigate it gracefully myself! In fact, most of the changes that need to take place in the groups we lead must first begin with us in order to be effective and helpful. It is also true that, as we begin to change and experience its benefits, that inspires those around us to change.

Invitation

1.    Pastor, I am in the midst or on the verge of profound change in my life and I need you to pray for me, that Jesus would take my hand and lead me through this season of change.

 

2.    Pastor, I need Jesus to change me as I make the decision today to follow Him. I need Him to forgive me and I need Him to help me.


Colton's "Word of wisdom" : "Save the soul and leave the saint to his father…!"

 


MENDING WALL - Robert Frost

 

Something there is that doesn't love a wall,
That sends the frozen-ground-swell under it,
And spills the upper boulders in the sun,
And makes gaps even two can pass abreast.
The work of hunters is another thing:
I have come after them and made repair
Where they have left not one stone on a stone,
But they would have the rabbit out of hiding,
To please the yelping dogs. The gaps I mean,
No one has seen them made or heard them made,
But at spring mending-time we find them there.
I let my neighbor know beyond the hill;
And on a day we meet to walk the line
And set the wall between us once again.
We keep the wall between us as we go.
To each the boulders that have fallen to each.
And some are loaves and some so nearly balls
We have to use a spell to make them balance:
'Stay where you are until our backs are turned!'
We wear our fingers rough with handling them.
Oh, just another kind of out-door game,
One on a side. It comes to little more:
There where it is we do not need the wall:
He is all pine and I am apple orchard.
My apple trees will never get across
And eat the cones under his pines, I tell him.
He only says, 'Good fences make good neighbors'.
Spring is the mischief in me, and I wonder
If I could put a notion in his head:
'Why do they make good neighbors? Isn't it
Where there are cows?
But here there are no cows.
Before I built a wall I'd ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offence.
Something there is that doesn't love a wall,
That wants it down.' I could say 'Elves' to him,
But it's not elves exactly, and I'd rather
He said it for himself. I see him there
Bringing a stone grasped firmly by the top
In each hand, like an old-stone savage armed.
He moves in darkness as it seems to me~
Not of woods only and the shade of trees.
He will not go behind his father's saying,
And he likes having thought of it so well
He says again, "Good fences make good neighbors."

 

 



[1] One of the biggest criticisms of Moses as a leader was the fact that he was instituting change ("leeks and onions"). When that spirit entered the people, not even divine provision could keep them from grumbling… (Manna). One of his biggest challenges as a leader was how to process change in an orderly fashion ("only as fast as the very young and the very old could travel"). Try as he did, he was unsuccessful at leading them into the Promised Land, not because of a lack in his leadership, but because of their innate resistance to change.